Why Stay Stuck When Change Is Possible?
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Better start at the source.
If every effort you've made has been for naught, if you find yourself returning to the same counterproductive behaviour, it's because you haven't dealt with the underlying cause.
This barrier to success lies in your unconscious mind — the result of (psychological) trauma activating a self-defence mechanism.
Huh? Let me explain.
Events such as losing a loved one, abuse, a health crisis, or a particularly humiliating incident stir up negative emotions. If not worked through, these emotions get trapped in your unconscious. And without you realising, they drive your decisions and behaviour.
To put it in another way:
Emotionally painful experiences in the past locked you in survival mode.
You adopted habits, behaviours and beliefs to protect yourself — like walls built to keep out failure, loss, embarrassment and suffering.
These self-preservation measures no longer serve you. However, to shut them off means working through the trauma (the trapped emotions) ingrained in your unconscious mind.
Otherwise, even the slightest trigger will send you scurrying back behind those walls. Because, like a reflex, your unconscious will block any action that may cause you pain. Even if it's an action you want to take.
Time alone does not fully heal emotional wounds.
The hurt settles in your unconscious, adversely influencing your thoughts, attitudes and behaviour. That's why therapies focused on the conscious level have limited success.
So, where does this leave you?
I can help clear the emotional hold on your unconscious and arm you with practical tools, so you can:
Level up with confidence, purpose and a clear sense of direction.
Maximise your potential and settle for nothing less.
Thrive in your career and build meaningful relationships.
Live a rich, fulfiling life, authentically
(true to who you really are).
Hi, I'm Emiliano Valcanover
Emotional Trauma Healing Life Coach
I developed my coaching practice because I wanted to pay forward the miracle that saved me.
And frankly, I don't want anyone to be stuck in limbo for as long as I was.
The loss of my wife threw me into a downward spiral that took years to emerge from. Since then, I've dedicated myself to empowering men and women around the globe to discard sabotaging behaviour and transform into their best selves.
My coaching programs draw on the same Neuro-Linguistic and Timeline techniques that helped me finally overcome the past. I tailor them to best suit your unique needs, enabling you to break through psychological barriers faster and accomplish your life goals with gusto.
My accreditations
Some of my success stories
Why work with me?
1.
I'll keep you committed and accountable.
My job is only done when you've completed the journey. So I'll motivate you if you lack drive and be tough if you attempt to obstruct your progress. No more giving up. This time, you're going all the way.
2.
I'll help you gain clarity -
on what you really want and who you truly are. The future will be less hazy when you're clear on your path and destination. You can move forward with intention and authenticity, no longer feeling like you have to fit society's expectations.
3.
I'll rewire your internal narrative.
You know the voices in your head that tear you down? They need to go. And to stop their return, we'll replace the space they held with truths that empower you. You'll be confident and self-possessed without needing external validation.
The Ball's In Your Court
Book a free connection call to start moving forward.
Let's find out if I'm the right coach to guide and support your quest for a fulfilling life.